Moments In Life

Very interesting question and I respect you for not wanting to jump into sex yet, it’s very admirable. You can def give her sexual pleasure and not have to have sex, practice sensual play with her, and by that I mean focus on really getting to know her in the deepest sense, take your time, take a day for just you and her. There is a consensus of female opinion that men seem to be in a hurry when giving them pleasure you know? Why rush pleasure, realize that women want to be loved, all over from head to toe. Start caressing her, lay her down and make her feel comfortable, as if she is the only person in your world. Slowly kiss her all over, slowly undress her and give her those chills down her spine. Grab her by the waist and kiss her stomach, kiss her thighs and such. Kiss her lips, play with her tongue, make her wet, just make her feel amazing and take your time. When you slow down and take your time, you are able to fully savor the pleasure of your sense and hers. You need to taste each other, touch each other, see each other, hear each other and smell each other. This will not only bring you closer, but it will also make you want each other more resulting in an explosive climax. This attitude releases both of you from the pressure of penetrating and creates a much more relaxing atmosphere for the both of you. I love sensual pleasure, it’s so sexy but romantic. Even a romantic soak in the tub together is a great way to achieve sexual pleasure. Touch each other at leisure. Tell each other exactly where and how you want to be touched. Each one of you has different responses; so explore with each other about what turns you on. Include all forms of touch, such as stroking, caressing and holding, as well as kissing, nibbling, sucking and licking. It can involve every part of the body and not just the most obvious areas. Explore her whole body, take time to let your kisses and touches worship her body. Focus your attention not just on the front of her body, but on her arms, legs and back. Cover her back with kisses, following its sensuous curves and lines. Then gently stroke her thighs so that they become warm and alive. This foreplay should give you time to relax together emotionally, as well as becoming aroused. Use these moments of tenderness and touching to enhance your intimate connection. Do not be afraid to let your states of arousal rise and fall like waves. Once you are in harmony, both physically and emotionally, you can ride those waves together, letting one peak of excitement reaching orgasm. Remember, touching, stroking, caressing and eye contact will keep you closely attuned to each other. Keeping that involved is a process that really allows you to explore and get to know one another. The better you know each another, the more there is to love about each other. It is a great way to enjoy each other without having sexual intercourse. That’s how a gentleman does it.