You notice her, you are interested and now you...

You notice her, you are interested and now you want to make your move. You picture approaching her, striking up a conversation that makes her laugh, so you ask her out, she says yes and the rest is history. If only it was that easy. There is a reason why it is called the dating game. In this game, both sides are playing with a different rule book. Your rule book tells you to be direct, see if she shows interest and take it from there. Her rule book, the “Advanced Play Hard to Get edition”, tells her to display just enough interest to show up on your radar. She is going to give you enough signals to keep you interested, but will throw many blocking maneuvers your way.

When you look at her, you catch her looking at you but she quickly looks away right? She is interested, but does not want to be the first to make a move. She wants you to approach her first. If she is playing hard to get she will not make this easy. She wants you to be willing to chase her, even if only for a little. It lets them know, you really want them. If you tell a girl you aren’t looking for anything serious and she says she isn’t either, don’t always believe her. Instead, look for some of the subtle physical signs that she likes you. Look at how her friends see you, she is definitely talking about you to them. Her friends are her safety net. They are reading you, just as she is. They will laugh at her jokes so you can see how clever she is. She is interested, but does not want to show her hand yet, so she is playing hard to get.

When you talk directly to her, she may avoid direct eye contact. Why? She is afraid her eyes will give away her true feelings of interest. She expects you to draw her out; win her over. This restraint is simply a devise to not appear overly interested. But be aware of body language, for that speaks volumes. Why do girls play hard to get? Most of the time, they are afraid of appearing too eager. They think that we will lose interest if theirs no challenge. They don’t want the guy to feel as if their easy, like we can have them so fast you know? So they put up walls, for us to knock down. If we can get through the few obstacles they put our way, then we can get through anything with them. <3

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Posted on Tuesday, 16 November
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