Well there’s only two ways this situation can go. Either she becomes a stripper against your advice. Or she doesn’t do it for the sake of the relationship and you. If she chooses to become one, you will have to think about the relationship and where you see it heading. Some will say exotic dancing is a profession, not a social experience, and in the nature of the business, she is selling a fantasy to her clients for profit and that’s all. And while that can be true, it will take a certain type of person to be okay with something like this, and if you feel like you will never be that person, you need to let her know how you really really feel.
It’s also important to know that just because you love her, doesn’t mean you have to support her in doing something you feel is not good for her and your relationship. You should explain that to her. Some of the people that I love deeply do things I am not okay with. And it doesn’t mean I don’t love them, or that I won’t be there for them, it just simply means I don’t support what they do. Stripping is a serious thing, and I know it can be fast money but ends don’t always justify the means, and there’s a lot of things money can’t buy. Maybe she doesn’t realize that your relationship may not survive if she chooses this as a job.
In either case, no matter how trusting a person is, an occupation like this will undermine that trust because it will weaken the physical bond that you two have shared. Once those things are compromised, everything else will go with it. I know people will say love is everything, but the truth is, sometimes love is not enough. And if you two cannot see eye to eye on issues that are important to both of you, you may have to reevaluate the relationship. Be honest with your feelings and thoughts. At the end of the day, she makes her own decisions, your only decision lays in doing what’s best for you, even if it means going on with life without her. <3