Moments In Life
The first step to happiness is deciding what you want, the second step is doing whatever it takes to get it and the last step is enjoying every minute of it.
Sometimes your biggest enemy is not the person who hurt you, it’s the person you stare at when you look in the mirror. Love yourself enough to let go, don’t look back, keep moving forward.
Find someone you can go to.

There are many people in this world who carry heavy burdens with them everyday and still try to function like nothing is wrong. This is not good and if anyone ever needs to talk to someone, please don’t ever hesitate to ask for advice, prayer, support, or just someone to talk to. I’m here for everyone of you and all your problems matter, no matter how big or small. It doesn’t have to be you speak to, but never keep things in, the best thing you can do for you and your heart is to speak to someone about the things that are bothering you. ♥

stevenrosas:

I miss your warmth beside me and I know it’s not all about the warmth but just cuddling with you was a great way to show affection. Like when we had one of those cold and rainy days and we stayed in and I would cover ourselves with the blankets so we would have to have that skin to skin contact, that’s what I miss. Because isn’t it a beautiful thing to share closeness with someone. Ever just lay down and listen to their heartbeat? It’s so amazing, It’s so alive, so intricate, so right there. The simple idea that when you hug that person their hearts a little faster because of you. The simple beating of a heart can put someone’s life into a precious perspective, especially when you realize that heart is beating for you. 

Try cuddling in silence and really get in tune with one another. The cold rainy days are just a great excuse to make that happen. I believe the hot days are about freedom and the cold ones are about being together. So when it gets cold outside, use this time to retreat and snuggle up with that special someone. It’s the little things that make a person know they are loved and appreciated. Holding a person close to you for an extended period of time is a good way to get back to the basics and cuddling is a basic necessity that should not be overlooked. It is a subtle, silent yet intense connection that your soul will appreciate once your bodies gently collide. <3 

Anonymous asked:
This girl and I really like each other, and she just told me she needed some space, alone, to grow as a person due to a past relationship. Is it good or is this bad? She says, she doesn't want things to end with us. How should I feel? What should I do?

I mean it’s not great but it’s not bad either. Let me explain both.

It’s not bad, because she most likely just needs time to figure out what she wants. Her past heartbreak is probably still heavy in her heart and she probably just wants to make sure that being in a relationship is the right thing for her right now.

It’s not great because asking for space before your dating, will make you over think everything. And if you’re not at least keeping contact with that person during this break, the reality that their feelings for you might disappear is always there.

I don’t think you should feel any type of way, nor should you stress it or over think things though. All you can do is respect her decision, be a gentleman and give her the time and space she as requested. Hope for the best, don’t be pushy, or overly clingy and continue to be the person she liked in the first place. If it’s meant to be, it will all work out.


Actions, good thoughts, and positive energy, speak louder than judgmental words and are the most powerful tools you can use when working towards a better world. Harsh words and condemning ways will never reach people, love and empathy will.

stevenrosas:

And Jesus said “Why have you chosen me to carry this grand burden?” and God said “Son, it’s either you for three days, or it’s them for eternity.”

Just ponder and sleep on that, and remember that when the praises go up, the blessings come down. Have a wonderful night and a beautiful tomorrow. May your day be blessed with love, laughs, and smiles.

Never beg people to stay against their will. Sometimes the gift of goodbye opens another door for you. Move on, and create the next chapter of your life.
If your relationship has enough trust, honesty, kindness, empathy, and understanding it should never require promises, expectations, terms and conditions.
Keep your head up.

Being strong is to love someone in silent, to radiate happiness when we are unhappy, to forgive someone who does not deserve forgiveness, to stay calm in moments of despair, to show joy when we don’t feel it, to smile when you want to cry, to make someone happy when our own heart is broken, to be silent when we feel like screaming our anguish, to comfort when we need to be comforted, to have faith when sometimes we no longer believe.

Anonymous asked:
What are your social media accounts?

You can find me here -

  1. Vine - stevengrosas
  2. Instagram - instagram.com/stevengrosas
  3. Facebook - facebook.com/stevengrosas
  4. Twitter - twitter.com/stevenrosas
  5. Kik - stevengrosas

I always follow back on these and or accept all friend requests, and you can talk to me on all of these as well if you’d like as well.


stevenrosas:

Sometime, I think we expect too much from ourselves; not that we can’t accomplish great things but rather that we go crazy and think we will do them faster, easier and more successfully than actually happens. What ends up happening is that we hurt, we feel depressed, not good enough and we start to resent things. You’re not perfect, and we all fail. Focus on what is working in your life and do that better. Choose one thing that you are grateful for and focus on it for the rest of the day.

It’s okay to step back once in awhile and just enjoy the moment. Even in tough situations it’s important to smile and laugh here and there. Don’t restrict yourself from doing things you love because they’re “not important” or because you think you’ll be criticized for doing them. Let yourself enjoy life even if you’re not at the best place you could be. You only live once, make the best of it. With every mistake, comes a lesson well learned. <3

The most important relationship you will have in this world is with yourself. Don’t be afraid to be alone with your thoughts and take some time to just re-evaluate what’s going through your head. Sometimes the greatest truths will come out in a whisper when you are being quiet.
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