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Letting go of the past is the only way to move forward. So many of us cling to past regret, mistakes made, people lost and steps never taken. Letting go of the past frees us of so many emotions that hold us back from growing into the person we’re supposed to be.
7 things to remember.

stevenrosas:

Do not have expectations. They will only set the bar too high, and most of the time, too high for reality to reach. Go in to things with an open mind, and hope for the best. It’s better that way. Your head and heart will thank you later. 

Listen to yourself. No one knows you better than you do. Only you can accurately decipher your own situation. Your friends can give you advice, but in the end, trust yourself. At the end of the day you are all you have.

Be kind to everyone. In life you will meet many people. Some you hit it off with instantly. Old friends. New friends. Everyone. It is important to be kind to everyone. What’s the harm in having some new friends? Don’t be so territorial of your life. The more the merrier.

Learn to love yourself. How cliche is that? I hate to say it, but it’s true. No one will love you until you learn to love yourself. If you’re not happy with yourself no one else will be either.

Take time for yourself. Sometimes I think people are around other people too much. We require stimulation at all times, when we shouldn’t. Take time to do something you love. Draw. Walk. Read. Write. Give yourself some time alone to reflect of just chill out. It’s good for your brain and soul. Being alone once and a while is a good thing.

Learn to put the past in the past. So often we let the past live in our present. It weighs you down, and makes you look foolish. Learn to acknowledge your past and accept it, but learn and move on before it pulls you under.

Live, don’t exist. Get out of your bed and do something. Anything. There’s too much out there that we let pass us by. Fall in love, make new friends, do something new. Don’t be afraid to fall. You only have this opportunity once. Now go out there and make the most of it all. <3

stevenrosas:

Tonight I’ve got to remind you what real love is and always has been. Don’t forget me. Don’t forget your first love story. Don’t forget that I have loved you more than anyone else ever has. Don’t forget I see the hurt you are going through. I see the confusion and I know your heart better than anyone else. I love you. I can help you. I will. Turn it over to me. Lay it at my feet. Don’t be afraid. I know you. When you search for love. When you crave it… when it’s not where you would expect it to be… know that I have always and will always love you. Let me write upon your heart and show you the love you crave… that you search for,” He says.

“God,” I ask.

“What is love?”

“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”

—1 Corinthians 13:4-7 

You must provide the same attention and care to yourself as you would to a lover. Relationships are wonderful, but you must go out of your way to please yourself and ensure that you are happy before you can fully enjoy another. Pamper yourself every once and a while, take yourself out and cater to your own needs. You need to love yourself, be your own best friend, and show yourself respect everyday.
Anonymous asked:
What are your thoughts on cheating? Could something so drastic be forgiven from one kiss over a year and a half ago. I miss my ex. and I'm not quite sure what to do. I miss him, but I'm not sure if it would be a good idea for me to get back with him. He might use the past against me and create further disappointment.. I would wait for us, but I couldn't. I called him and asked if we could talk next month about this. And he said ok. Wanted to know your insight on this.

I think the two most important questions you need to ask yourself will really give you perspective on this situation.

  1. Has he asked for forgiveness?
  2. Have you forgiven him?

If he hasn’t asked for forgiveness and you’re the one making the approach then I would suggest you tread carefully. Has he really been sorry? Has he tried to make things right? Does he really show a difference in character, has he tried to show you that he’s different? All of this is important, because if he hasn’t show any signs that he really regretted what he did than maybe it’s best to stay acquaintances.

If you don’t forgive, nothing will ever change, and both of you would be using the past as weapons. So even if you miss him, none of you can’t move forward if you haven’t forgiven him for the past. And if you’re going to be constantly worrying, and or stressing about what he might be doing because you can’t trust him, then maybe it’s best to keep things the way they are. So my advice to you is really think about what you want. Do you miss the way he made you feel? Or do you really miss him?

Has he been in the picture? Has he tried at all to work things out? When you cheat on someone and you want that person back, it takes a lot of time to get things back to the way they were. And if you’re the one who got cheated on and you’re thinking about your getting back with your ex, but you haven’t forgiven them, then it’s going to be a mess. You really need to reevaluate things and do some searching. Challenge yourself to answer these hard questions and I think you’ll find the answer you’re looking for. <3


Anonymous asked:
How does it feel to help so many people?

It’s an amazing feeling honestly. My greatest joy is knowing that I can and have helped someone less fortunate than myself. To know that I could have potentially saved a life, a relationship, helped someone move on from one, etc, etc is beautiful. Helping others has made me become a better person, more understanding and patient, less judging and more loving. I’m very blessed, but most importantly I am blessed because I give myself to others without expecting anything in return. <3


There are many people in this world who carry heavy burdens with them everyday and still try to function like nothing is wrong. This is not good and if anyone ever needs to talk to someone, please don’t ever hesitate to ask for advice, prayer, support, or just someone to talk to. I’m here for everyone of you and all your problems matter, no matter how big or small.

stevenrosas:

I know it hurts to sit there, waiting for it to end. But you know who’s going through the real suffering? The one who broke your heart, because they’re going to go through crappy relationship after crappy relationship just to realize one day that you were probably the one all that time. Whenever you’re in a relationship always keep in mind that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Every now and then, you are bound to experience disappointment, despair, bouts of arguments and misunderstanding. It is always a good thing though that despite all the craziness involved in a relationship, you never let your self confidence leave. Remember that if things do not end up as you have expected, and your heart ends up becoming broken, it doesn’t mean you’re not eligible to be happy and or in love, it just means that it takes a few failed relationships to finally find the right person for you. Now is when your life beings, stay strong. <3

Anonymous asked:
How's your current love life?

It’s their, but that part of my life is not being occupied by anyone at the moment. My heart is not closed off to anyone, I guess it’s just waiting for the right girl to come on through and snatch it up. Thank you for asking though. <3


It’s time to let go when…

stevenrosas:

  1. Someone expects you to be someone you’re not.
  2. A person’s actions don’t match their words.
  3. You catch yourself forcing someone to love you.
  4. Someone continuously breaks your trust.
  5. Someone continuously overlooks your worth.
  6. You are frequently forced to sacrifice your happiness.
  7. You catch yourself questioning your relationship often.
  8. You cry more than you smile.
  9. Someone never tries to understand.
  10. You feel you deserve to be treated better.
Never waste your time trying to explain yourself to people who have proven that they are committed to misunderstanding you
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