I wouldn’t break up with her over a small thing like that. I would be reasonable and just bring up the issue and address it with her. I believe honesty is the best policy and If I was dating someone who I felt was not being real, I would just bring it up and hear what she would have to say about it. Sometimes people act different around their friends and different with their significant others. Sometimes it can be a bad thing, sometimes it can be a good thing. Either way, If It bothered me, I would just talk to her about it. <3
We’re all seeking those special relationships that feel perfect for us, but if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to realize that there are no “perfect people” for you, just different flavors of imperfect ones. That’s because we are all imperfect in some way. You yourself are imperfect in many ways, and you seek out relationships with people who are imperfect in complementary ways.
It takes a lot of life experience to grow fully into yourself and realize your own imperfections; and it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest imperfections, your unsolvable flaws – the ones that truly define who you are – that you are able to proficiently select harmonious relationships. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for imperfect people who balance you out – the perfectly imperfect people for you. <3
Let’s try something new, just you and me. Let’s do something out of the ordinary, something so spontaneous, let’s go out on an adventure and see where it takes us. Let’s take some food and drinks and go out on a long drive and go to the beach and watch the sunset together, it doesn’t even matter if it isn’t warm, we can wear hoodies, enjoy the breeze and keep each other warm. Or we can leave the luxury of cars and go out for a long walk when the atmosphere is serene and sit somewhere and talk about the things we love. Let me try something new, let me give you a whole body massage, from head to toe. Let’s get comfortable and lay down and cuddle. Let’s stare at each other and see how long we can go without wanting to kiss one another. Let’s go outside and play some sports, let’s get out of our comfort zones, and find something we can both love and enjoy.
Let me cook for you, while you relax and wait for food to be done. Let me carry you to bed when you’re tired, let me drown you in kisses till I feel like I have no more left. Let’s play some board games, when we sleep over each others houses. Let’s go to a fast food spot we haven’t been too. Let’s go to Ikea and go future furniture shopping. Let’s take a trip to Disney land, Cali, NY, anywhere other than home. Because It really doesn’t matter what we do, as long as we always try something new. Let these moments, the moments we spend with our loved ones be the few moments in our lives that we feel should last a lifetime. Such moments are rare, and when spent with the people we love, we should want to love and treasure each smile, and each laughter. <3
Would you break up with a girl if she acted real fun & outgoing with her friends but acted shy and calm around you?
And Jesus said “Why have you chosen me to carry this grand burden?” and God said “Son, it’s either you for three days, or it’s them for eternity.”
Just ponder and sleep on that, and remember, when the praises go up, the blessings come down. May your days be blessed with love, laughs, and smiles. <3
Is it possible to be just friends that have sex? And still manage to have a great conversation and hang out. Or do feelings develop? I hope to hear from your reply. Thank you!
To be honest it’s possible, but it solely depends on the both individuals involved. You would have to have an agreement with that person that it’s only going to be sex and nothing more. And you would also have to feel like you can trust that person, not only with your body, but with their honesty because no matter how much people say, “I will never change” or “develop feelings” people do, and when sex is involved, people change faster than you can believe. So I would ask, how sure are you that it won’t be awkward? How sure are you that your friend won’t start seeing you as a body just to have sex with and not as a friend to cherish?
I mean, what if the other person wants to sleep with other people? I mean there isn’t much you can do, you’re not together, and you have no obligation to stay honest with each other, so how would you feel? It’s hard and I wouldn’t recommend it. I think as an idea it sounds great and if it was easy than every one would be doing it, but I believe one cannot have repeated sex with someone and not develop some kind of emotional feelings for that person. I believe trying to maintain a “friends with benefits’ relationship is a lot more complicated than what it would be just trying to find someone to settle with.
Sex isn’t as simple as people make it out to be. Sex is very personal whether people want to admit it or not. Sex is not only physical, but it’s very emotional as well and when you’re choosing to sleep with someone but not invest any time, feelings and or love into that person, I feel like you’re going to get hurt. And you’re going to slowly feel horrible about yourself, because one day after sex when they leave, you’re going to feel alone, and you’re going to feel as if the only thing you’re good enough for is sex and nothing else. So yes, it’s possible, but it’s going to take two people who value sex over friendship and great conversation, because I believe eventually it will turn bad and one day when that person leaves, you’re going to feel really empty. <3
"I wan’t to kiss you in every kind of way, in every possible place when we are together." Like I honestly want to hold you and give you a kiss that would make you so weak in the knees that I might have to carry you around the house cause you’d be so numb. I want to give you a kiss so good and so passionate, that it would feel as if I was inside you in the middle of us making love, with every thrust being my tongue moving with yours. I want to lay you down on the bed, and slowly undress you, but I don’t want to make love, I want to kiss your body up and down, down and up until my lips get tired of tracing the outline of your physique. And when you’re looking at yourself in the mirror, I will come behind you and wrap my arms around your waist, I will slowly raise up your shirt and move your hair to the side as I kiss your neck, back and lips.
I want you to feel as if I am fulfilling your every desire, without the need of us having to have intercourse. Because I never want to make a relationship solely based on that, which is why I want to kiss your body in and out, I want to know it’s secrets, and your spots, I want to know where are you the most ticklish and where do I have to kiss to get you turned on. I want to know what makes you laugh the hardest, and what makes you smile the most. I want to know you inside and out with only having to use my lips, so if the day ever comes where we are ready to take that next step, it will be without a doubt something you will never forget. Because you will wholeheartedly know my intentions, my heart and my devotion. You will know that I have taken out the time to know you, to love you, to kiss you, to hold you, to adore you, and to cherish you. <3
You will never find peace until you learn to finally let go of the hatred and hurt that lives in your heart. Life is far too short to be spent in nursing bitterness and registering wrongs. Grudges are for those who insist that they are owed something; forgiveness, on the other hand, is for those who are confident enough to stand on their own two legs and move on. In order to move on, you must know why you felt the way you did, and why you no longer need to feel that way. It’s about accepting the past, letting it be, and pushing your spirit forward with good intentions. Nothing empowers your ability to heal and grow as much as your love and forgiveness. <3